So how was your Thanksgiving? Ours was wonderful...spent watching the parade & some Christmas movies. All of the new recipes I tried turned out great...with the exception of one. The french silk pie had a weird texture. It had a good taste but something just wasn't right. Plus, I pulled it out of the fridge and after sitting on the counter for about 10 min it got a bit watery in the bottom of the pan. Weird. So I won't be making that one again.
Bummer.
Maybe it's better frozen like they did in the recipe??
Didn't go out shopping on Black Friday. I don't like it. People pushing & shoving each other to save 10 bucks on a video game. I shopped a little online for some things I wanted to get the kids for Christmas but that's about it.
Instead we stayed home, just hanging out. Later that evening I took the kids to see Rise of the Guardians. GREAT movie.
I did go out on Saturday with my oldest daughter to support a few small businesses in my area. First we hit Top Stitch for some red chevron fabric for a few Christmas projects. Then over to Fergusons Cafe for lunch. Great food, awesome people. And they filmed the diner scene from Vision Quest there...one my all time favorite movies from the 80s :) I had no idea how much of that movie was filmed in Spokane til I moved here!
After that we headed over to a local bakery for some candy cane cake pops. YUM! Then we went over to Lollipop Lemondrop, a kids consignment shop, & got a few goodies there. Btw, they have the best lollipops :)
It was a very stress-less Saturday afternoon with my daughter...the kind of Christmas shopping I like!
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With all of this shopping craziness of Black Friday it reminded me of a post from Dave Ramsey earlier this month. Dave Ramsey is one of my favorite financial guys. I have a Finance/Accounting background & I love his envelopes concept. I use them every day and so do my kids :) Such a different (but simple!) way of looking at budgeting money. Cause sometimes budgets can be boring...even for a Finance major ;)
Anyway, he had a post recently about modeling contentment (found here). I absolutely agree with everything in that post.
We live in an area where there are many families who have more than us. And by 'more', I mean the 'tangible' stuff. Things. Toys. Fancier homes. The stuff that, to me, isn't really all that important in my life.
And what's sad is that some (not all) of these people are teaching their kids that these things are important in life. My daughter recently took her ipod nano (that she used her own money to buy last year) to school for a class party. When one of her classmates saw that it wasn't a 'touch' ipod she then said 'oh, yours sucks'.
Spoiled much??
My kids see that some of their classmates have a Kindle, or ipad, or cell phones.
Don't get me wrong, that stuff is fun! But I'm ok living without it. And I want my kids to know that it's ok to live without it. And if you want nice things in life you work for them...and save. You don't just charge up your credit card to have nice things. A lesson that is sadly missed on most people these days.
My life is good. We have a nice home. A few nice things. I'm ok with not having more. I'm ok that my countertops aren't granite. I'm ok with not having an ipad. I'm ok with my trusty pick-up truck that's 11 yrs old and still going strong. I'm ok with not having the latest Vera Bradley bag, or latest electronic gadget, or whatever.
Because when I do get something nice from time to time, or we're able to splurge on a vacation, it's that much more special to me.
And I teach my kids that every day, especially at Christmas time. My kids have always been limited to 3 items on their Christmas list to Santa. And quite honestly it's never been an issue of 'why can't I have more??'. Now that doesn't mean that's all they get. I just don't think it appropriate to take a list of a ton of 'gimme' stuff to the big guy in red. Just my personal opinion.
We pick families off a giving tree & we shop together for those people. My kids get involved in the shopping, wrapping, & delivering of these items.
We donate to the Salvation Army buckets when they're out during the holidays. And my kids donate some of their money. I don't ask them to. They see me giving and it encourages them to give...even if it's just some change.
This year since they've been doing the Financial Peace Junior they are saving the money in their 'give' envelopes for Toys For Tots. In December we'll head out to do some shopping and they can pick out what they want to buy & donate it.
It empowers children when they give.
I'm a firm believer in showing your kids that you don't have to have a bunch of 'things' to be happy. And when they see that all year long it's not really a big issue when Christmas rolls around :)